Guys who say they aren't looking to be in a relationship right now are difficult to understand.
What's the point of dating someone if there is no possibility of a blooming relationship?
You're not looking for something serious. Well, chances are the girl is looking for something that will grow to be more serious.
Why should a girl waste her time on such a guy?
When a guy says they are not looking for anything serious, that is a girl's cue to run far away and fast. Because that sort of guy is just looking to use her.
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The only exception that I would add to that general rule is when guys have recently gotten out of a relationship. Sometimes, they need to date someone and learn to trust before jumping seriously into something new.
Don't do it. Usually guys who say that to you do mean what they say, i.e., they're just not looking for a relationship. Maybe they just want to get laid, maybe they need time, but the buttomline is they don't feel like having a relationship and they don't want it. Don't waste your time trying to "save" or "change" someone. You'll just end up feeling helpless and hurt. Find someone who's ready and IS looking for a relationship, or on the same page as you, wherever you might be at. Don't settle. If a guy likes you, he'll never tell you that he's not looking for a relationship. In fact, if he likes you he'll beg you to be in a relationship with him. Just imagine this, if a guy meets (insert a hot beautiful woman's name here) and is trying to get her to like him, do you think he'll say that he's not looking for a relationship? Would you tell someone you like that you're just not looking for a relationship?
Sorry, I get really passionate if I'm talking about something I deeply believe in. If he needs time, then give him time. Leave him alone, and when he's ready, he'll know where to find you.
Okay, I'm done now.
Ah, I agree as well. If a guy wants to be with you, he will. Otherwise he's just keeping you in the wings until something better comes around. It's happened to the best of us ...
Well single guy, that's all fine and nice.
But no girl wants to be rebound girl, especially if there's no potential for keeps.
What's in it for the girl?
No wiser words could be spoken. Now if only I could take your advice.
Unfortunately when it comes to dating I like to ignore my brain. My stupid heart always says "You never know. It might work out some how." Even though my brain is flashing red warnings.
No one wants to be "in the meantime girl" MJ. It can really suck. Although I don't think I've ever had anyone dump me for another woman. If that ever happens look out.
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