Often the best dates are simple, like a walk on the beach.
The best dates occur when you and your date are yourselves and just click. Everything happens naturally.
During a good date nothing is forced. The conversation isn't awkard and the kiss just feels right.
The best way to doom a date is to plan it and plan it and plan it. With all that planning, there is too much pressure. It is expected to be perfect. And what is "perfect" anyway?
Perhaps spontaneous dates are best.
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I don't have access to a beach either, but if I did...
But I agree. The simple dates, like going for coffee, are best. As long as you and your date are able to hold a conversation.
If you aren't, I suppose then it's too the movies. No conversation required there and when the movie ends you can talk about the movie.
But if you can't hold a conversation with your date, then there is no point.
Yeah one reason why I'll never do a movie on the first date. I need to know if the person is communicative or not and it's too hard while sitting in a theater.
Good planning makes it much easier to be spontaneous.
I had a first date that ended up back at her place with her reaching to unbuckle my belt. I was so freaked out I didn't know to react.
Bleh, sorry for the typos:
I didn't know HOW to react.
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