Remember, when talking to the ex, even when you are miserable, you have to make it look like your life is going well.
Like a good public relations person, put a positive spin on your life's circumstances. Everything is going great.
Smile, appear happy and rub what you can into their faces. Appear unphased when they tell you they are getting married next week.
The goal: Make them feel jealous. Make them feel like it's their loss.
Even if you don't ever want to date them again, even if you hate them for everything they did to you, you have to be the bigger, better person in an effort to add to your ex's pain.
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Now that's what I call "taking the high road"!! Haha!
It is the high road. Your ex doesn't want to hear about your problems. Why get into it with them? You don't owe them your real feelings.
And by the way all is fair in love and war.
If all is fair in love and war, then why the bitter retribution towards the ex? I don't get it. Keeping you problems from your ex is no more "the high road" than telling them your "successes" is the high road, or the low road for that matter, because what you've expressed is essentially an intention to deceive, not an honest attempt to spare them the downer of your life.
Well isn't an honest attempt to "spare them the downer of your life" deception? Even if it is to spare them.
And when all is fair in love and war that means anything goes, whether it's the high road or the low road. And that includes the bitter retribution of making sure your life sounds like it is going great.
If you call that retribution.
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