Friday, December 29, 2006

The Meaning of Life.

It's funny how a bad movie can turn out to be really good. You just need a few days to think about it.

I watched the movie Elizabethtown last week. I didn't think it was that great.

It was kind of boring. There was too much talking. I was expecting some light quick-paced romantic comedy. It wasn't.

Upon thinking about it, it was a lot more. It's about how we get so tunnel visioned in life.

In this case, up and coming shoe designer, Drew Baylor, spends eight years working on a shoe design that bombs once it hits the market.

"A shoe is not just a shoe. It connects us to the Earth." It's my favourite line in the movie, because we always find away to overrate what we do.

Of course, while Baylor was working on the perfect shoe, he missed spending time with his father, who dies right around the time his shoe design fails.

Baylor plans to kill himself, since his whole life, which was wrapped around a shoe, is over. Baylor is fired from his job and dropped by all his so-called-friends, who only cared about him when he was a success.

Baylor has to postpone his suicide plans to take care of his father's funeral arrangements. Along the way, he discovers there is a whole world out there that he's neglected because he was so focused on one goal.

I think the movie is true to life, although a little exaggerated. We do create our own little bubble of self-importance. We focus on one or two goals. And we can tend to shut others out while we work towards these goals.

So the question becomes, what are we missing in our lives? What should we let in to bring us more balance? You need to be balanced when the bubble pops. Otherwise, you'll fall, like Baylor almost did.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Some people's lives are more exagerated than others. I find life becomes less exagerated when you realize that you're replacable. And if that's true. Who really cares about anything? You're replacable. The limited amount of time on this planet is not. Unless you're all Budhist of something. Which is also fine.

Kelly said...

And you say I'm cynical? I think you've been at The Star too long.

Yes, you're replaceable in jobs maybe. But you're not replaceable to yourself, your family and friends.

You're a one of a kind that people would miss. How's that for Buddhist philosophy? Rolling your eyes yet?

I'm kind of a Buddhist, in the sense that I kind of believe in reincarnation.